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Your Everything-to-Know Guide to the Most Popular Dating Apps Available

Take the guesswork out of deciding which app to download—we did the hard work for you.

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If you’re navigating the world of online dating right now, we know it’s no easy feat. The huge selection of dating sites available can make figuring out the best one for you feel overwhelming. Enter: Our ultimate dating apps guide to help you decide. Because yes, you actually can have fun on the apps (we swear!)—as long as you feel safe and empowered!

But before you open the app store, first identify what you want to get out of your dating app experience, suggests licensed marriage and family therapist Renée Zavislak, LMFT. “Take some time to reflect on your sexual desires and boundaries, what you like and don’t, and what you’re willing to try and aren’t,” she says. Are you looking for a casual hookup, serious relationship, or ways to explore non-monogamy? Getting clear on your intentions can help you approach online dating from a more confident place—even if you don’t feel that way yet.

Once you choose an app that aligns with your interests, get clear on your personal boundaries. It can be a lot harder to try to set a boundary when you’re flirting online and the stakes feel high, but having a few go-to phrases can help, Zavislak says. “Don't be afraid to say things like, 'That makes me uncomfortable,' 'Please do not contact me,' or even just 'No,'” she says.

Another important thing to keep in mind: Since we’ve entered the age of AI, you’ll want to exercise extra caution around potential fake profiles, catfishing, and what Zavislak calls “Chad-GPTs” (lol). “[Someone might] send you a photo of a cappuccino on their desk. Look closely and…it’s a stock photo. Their messages will sound as if they were written by a bot, because they usually are,” she warns. (Apps usually require verification nowadays, but that doesn’t mean Chad-GPTs can’t slip through.)

Once you’ve landed on an app that fits your preferences, be safe and always trust your gut. “The biggest mistake we make is using our brains to talk our bodies out of what they know,” Zavislak says. If something feels weird, it probably is, she says—so don’t be afraid to bail on a conversation or situation that makes you feel unsafe or insecure in any way.

Ahead, we’re breaking down all the major dating apps on the market right now, who they’re best for, and what you can expect.

Hinge

Pros

  • Sophisticated matching algorithm
  • Creative prompts allow for quality conversations
  • Informed by researchers, behavioral analysts, and matchmakers

Cons

  • Some users report scammers and fake profiles

With 30 million users, Hinge is one of the biggest dating apps out there. They say it's “designed to be deleted” so you can (hopefully) say goodbye to doomscrolling once and for all. After signing up, you’ll answer some prompts to help the app get a sense of your personality (including some new prompts co-created with relationships expert Esther Perel). Then, you’ll start seeing a range of profiles, and you can start messaging whenever.

Hinge is free to use and you can upgrade to Hinge+ for unlimited likes or HingeX for more enhanced features. Whatever tier you choose, the app is well-designed, easy to use, and beginner-friendly. Here’s a full breakdown of how it works.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version. Hinge +: One week, $19.99; One month, $44.99; Three months, $89.99; Six months, $149.99 Hinge X: One week, $24.99; One month, $54.99; Three months, $99.99; Six months, $179.99
Best ForAnyone looking for a long-term relationship
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
Tinder

Pros

  • Massive user base in over 190 countries
  • Easy to swipe right or left on matches
  • Ability to change your location while traveling

Cons

  • Many users are looking for casual hookups
  • Some say the app design and layout is overwhelming

This dating app needs absolutely no introduction. With 55 billion matches to date, Tinder is the most popular app out there and has been around for a while. Although it welcomes people looking for all types of relationships, it’s best known for casual dating and hookups. In the app, you can add your passions to your profile, specify what you’re looking for, and chat with people around the world with the premium Passport feature.

Details

PlatformTinder.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree version. $12.99 per week for one-week Tinder Plus® subscription, $5.38 per week for six-month subscription. Tinder Gold™ : One week for $18.99; one month for $10.00/week; six months for $5.38/week; one year for $3.46/week.
Best ForPeople looking for hookups, casual dates, relationships.
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Bumble

Pros

  • Advanced filters help you find quality matches
  • Ability to link your Spotify account
  • Encourages women to make the first move

Cons

  • Free version limits swipes
  • Profile section has limited word count

Founded by Whitney Wolfe Herd, Bumble is one of the O.G. dating apps known for encouraging women to make the first move. While the company has evolved with different features over the years (like Bumble BFF), Bumble is still dedicated to helping rewrite the rules of dating with kindness and safety at its core. The app’s new feature, Opening Moves, makes it easier to kick off convos, and fun new badges give help you indicate exactly what you’re looking for, from “intimacy without commitment” to “ethical non-monogamy.” You can even link your Spotify account and see what music you bond over.

Details

PlatformBumble.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree version; Bumble Premium starts at $32.99/month
Best ForWomen looking for long-term relationship
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
OkCupid

Pros

  • Large user base and high success rate
  • Ability to specify dating dealbreakers
  • Easy to use on desktop

Cons

  • Free version has limited access and repetitive profiles
  • Payment plans can get pricey

OkCupid is one of the most popular dating apps on the market, with 91 million connections made every year. The company claims it has more mentions in The New York Times wedding section than any other app (a wild record?!) and it helps facilitate around 50,000 dates every week. With OkCupid Basic—their standard subscription option—you can send unlimited likes, identify and set your dating dealbreakers, and more. It’s straightforward and you can also use it on your desktop. Classic for a reason!

Details

PlatformOkCupid.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree version; OkCupid Premium: $54.99/month
Best ForPeople looking for long-term relationships
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Feeld

Pros

  • Open-minded, inclusive membership base
  • Can choose between 20+ sexual identity terms
  • Constellation feature lets you connect your profile with up to five partners

Cons

  • Not ideal for folks seeking monogamy
  • Users claim that many features are paywalled

Known as the “dating app for the curious,” Feeld is for anyone open to exploring gender, sexuality, and desire outside of traditional dating norms. Their member base is proof: Polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, homo- and heteroflexibility, pansexuality, asexuality, aromanticism, voyeurism, and kink are just a few of the identities and desires that make up the community.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; $29.99 for 30-day Majestic Membership
Best ForQueer folks looking for hookups, sexual exploration, or polyamory
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
Raya

Pros

  • Application-based and selective vetting process
  • Potential to match with high-profile connections
  • Opportunity for professional networking

Cons

  • Potential long waitlist after submitting an application
  • Exclusivity can mean less potential matches in your area

You’ve probably heard of Raya, the private, membership-based app where some of your fave celebs, creatives, and influencers have likely turned up at some point. To use Raya, you download the app and submit an application. You’ll then be waitlisted, and once you’ve been accepted, you can sign up for a one, six-month, or 12-month membership. Although the exact admission criteria for Raya are a mystery, the app appears to be filled with VIPs and public figures.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; $24.99 per month for membership; $49.99 per month for Raya+ membership
Best ForCelebs, influencers, and high-profile daters seeking hookups
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Chispa

Pros

  • Designed specifically for Latine singles
  • Has different modes for “social” and “social and dating”
  • Easy to set up a profile and get started

Cons

  • Users say it’s hard to find matches in their area
  • Some report issues with the “block” feature

Made specifically for Latine singles, Chispa provides an exclusive community to find connections based on similar likes and interests. Similar to other dating apps, it’s easy to set up, start browsing, and chat with potential matches. Upgrading to a premium subscription lets you send unlimited likes (including “Super Chispas”) and boost your profile’s chances of getting recognized.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; Platinum version ranges from $25-$100; Elite version ranges from $20-$72; Premium version ranges from $10-$36
Best ForLatine singles looking for community, hookups, or long-term romance
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
BLK

Pros

  • Designed for Black folks and communities specifically
  • Easy to customize who and what you’re looking for
  • Multiple membership tier options for flexibility

Cons

  • Have to pay to see you who “likes” you
  • Some users report tech issues and lack of available matches

BLK is the top dating and lifestyle app for the Black community. The company’s mission is to create a warm, inviting, supportive, and inclusive space where Black love is celebrated and respected in all its forms. You get a personalized batch of matches to look at every day, and if the vibes are mutual, you can start chatting right away. In the free version, you have the option of joining a community space and connecting with other members using text and photos. Upgrading to an Elite or Platinum tier membership gives you more features, like advanced filters, read receipts, and more.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; Premium tier ranges from $10-$36; Elite tier ranges from $22-$72; Platinum tier ranges from $25-$100
Best ForBlack singles looking for community, hookups, or long-term romance
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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HER

Pros

  • LGBTQIA+-friendly and inclusive of queer folks
  • Fosters community through events and chat rooms
  • Easy to set up a profile and start swiping

Cons

  • Discover page not offered on free version
  • Premium required for ad-free experience and additional features

While most popular dating apps focus on heteronormative relationships, HER focuses exclusively on the needs of queer women, non-binary, and trans people. The app has 15 million users in over 114 countries, and it has made over 300 lesbian matches to date, per the company. From Pride Pins to queer interest groups and communities, there are many ways to lean into your identity within the app. With the basic version, you can join communities and make connections, while a premium membership gives you an ad-free experience, incognito mode, and being able to see who’s online in real time.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; Gold starting at $24.99/month; Platinum starting at $31.99/month
Best ForQueer women, non-binary and trans folks looking for friendship, dating, and relationships
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
eharmony

Pros

  • Large user base and high success rate
  • Extensive compatibility quiz and matching process
  • Free version includes unlimited matches

Cons

  • Expensive compared to other dating apps
  • Need Premium to see members’ photos and have unlimited messaging

Eharmony is one of the biggest names in the online dating world, and for good reason. Over the last 20+ years, the platform has reportedly created over 2 million successful relationships in over 125 countries. The app’s compatibility matching system takes a deep dive into your habits, interests, and goals, and creates a personality profile that helps you learn more about what you’re looking for in a relationship. The free version allows for unlimited matches and limited messaging capabilities, but eharmony Premium gives you all the perks.

Details

Platformeharmony.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree Basic; Premium version ranges $364.69-$662.70; Premium Plus ranges $418.59-$765.05; Premium Unlimited ranges $448.53-$816.12
Best ForPeople 18+ looking for serious relationships and marriage
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Plenty of Fish

Pros

  • Requires selfie verification and face filters are banned
  • First dating app to introduce livestreaming
  • Available in 11 languages and more than 20 countries

Cons

  • The free version has ads
  • Some users report tech issues and limited options

This well-known dating platform is made to help you forget the days of awkward online dating and connect with people based on shared interests. The process: Create a profile, upload at least four pics, take the app’s safety pledge, and start swiping on MeetMe, the feed for potential matches. Plenty of Fish even implemented a “filter ban” to prevent people from altering their appearances and make online dating more authentic. The app encourages a laid-back approach to dating, and is a classic choice for dating app veterans and newbies alike.

Details

PlatformsiOS, Android
PriceFree version; Plus tier ranges $14.99-$79.99; Premium tier ranges $19.99-$199.99; Prestige tier ranges $30-$160
Best ForPeople looking to date casually
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
Muzz

Pros

  • Designed specifically for Muslim folks seeking relationships
  • Large user base and specialized filters for religion and lifestyle
  • Settings help you remain anon to friends and family

Cons

  • Some users report technical issues
  • Not LGBTQIA+ friendly

In the dating world, finding someone who respects your background and beliefs is key. As the leading app for Muslim dating and marriage, Muzz is designed to help single Muslims find their ideal partner while respecting their religious beliefs. Muzz reportedly brings together 500 Muslim couples every day, and the app has facilitated over 600,000 success stories worldwide, per the company. It’s free to see profiles and chat with potential matches, and you can filter by location, interests, profession, language, and more. With intentional safety features, you also have complete control over who sees your profile, and you can include a chaperone (or Wali) in your convos.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; $34.99 per month for Muzz Gold
Best ForMuslim folks looking for friendship, dating, or marriage
LGBTQIA Friendly?No
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Christian Mingle

Pros

  • The longest-running Christian dating service available
  • A wide range of users of all ages

Cons

  • Free version only lets you send 10 likes a day and has limited features

Christian Mingle has been around for over 20 years—first as a website, and then, as of 2014, a dating app. With over 15 million members, to this day it's the most popular dating service for Christian singles who want to meet likeminded people and find long-term love. Your Discover page lets you see potential matches and send likes, and there's a paid Liked You feature that lets you unlock who's already liked you.

Details

Platformschristianmingle.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree version, $49.99/month for premium
Best ForChristian singles of all ages looking for serious relationships
LGBTQIA Friendly?No
Pure

Pros

  • Users can remain anonymous
  • Dedicated space to list your “Turn-Ons”
  • Photos self-destruct after being seen, and you’ll be notified about screenshots

Cons

  • The subscription for men and non-binary folks can be pricey
  • Anonymity can mean potential catfishing

Dating can feel like a serious game, but it doesn’t have to be. On PURE, you’re encouraged to show up as the “most playful version” of yourself. It centers on “Personal Ads” where you post an Ad—essentially your bio—and describe the type of experience you’re looking for (creativity encouraged!). Instead of surface-level facts, the goal is to speak openly about yourself and your turn-ons, make jokes, and get detailed about your interests and fantasies (but no explicit pics allowed). The goal? To help you escape the predictability of modern dating and experience something “more exciting and hedonistic,” per the company.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree for women; Pure Queen subscription (for women): $12.99 for 1-month or $19.99 for one year. Premium Subscription for male and non-binary users: $13.49-$69.99 for Android, $13.49-$99.99 for iOS.
Best ForAdventurous daters looking for anonymous hookups
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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The League

Pros

  • Highly curated list of potential matches
  • Rigorous screening and vetting system for users
  • “Flakiness score” helps prevent ghosting

Cons

  • Expensive compared to other dating apps
  • Waitlist can be long and you have to pay to skip it

If your dating standards are sky-high, The League says you should keep ‘em that way. Designed for busy, motivated daters, this exclusive dating app uses a discerning application process to ensure a “selective and high quality” community. Every day at happy hour (5 p.m. local), everyone receives a curated list of potential matches to review. The app’s users range from Ivy League grads to corporate execs, so if mutual ambition and intellectual banter turns you on, there’s a good chance you’ll find some good matches here.

Details

PlatformiOS, Android
PriceFree version; Select Tier: $59.99/month; Premium: $99.99/month; Unlimited: $299.99/month; OMNI League: $2,499.99/month
Best ForAmbitious daters looking for a long-term relationship
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
Archer

Pros

  • Specifically designed with gay men and couples in mind
  • In-app Health Hub features expert tips on mental, physical, and sexual health
  • Informed by a community of gay men and LGBTQIA+ organizations

Cons

  • Some reviewers report limited user base in smaller cities
  • Users report glitches and trouble archiving conversations

Archer was created by gay men, for gay men, and it’s one of the most popular dating apps out there. It’s designed to be an inclusive app for the gay community, whether you’re looking for friendship, romance, something casual, long-term connection, or somewhere in-between. You can easily note what you’re looking for, update your status, view a real-time GPS map to see who’s nearby, and shoot your shot when you’re ready.

Details

PlatformsiOS, Android
PriceFree version; $29.99 per month, $59.99 for 3 months, or $99.99 for six months of Archer Gold
Best ForGay and queer men
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Dateability

Pros

  • Dedicated to inclusion, accessibility, and empowerment
  • Features an extensive list of terms to describe one’s chronic illness or disability
  • Helps provide relationship skills coaching through Dating Made Easier program

Cons

  • Need to purchase premium for additional filters beyond age, gender, and location

Dateability is the only dating app designed for the disabled and chronically ill communities. It was created in 2022 by Alexa Child and her sister Jacqueline Child, who is disabled due to chronic illness and experienced discrimination and offensive comments on mainstream dating apps. Given that folks with disabilities and chronic illnesses often encounter ableism while dating, Dateability is built to be a safe, accepting space for people with physical, intellectual, and psychiatric disabilities (and 7-10 percent of users are non-disabled allies, per the company). Although the app is fairly new, its user base has grown tenfold in just three years, and the first “Dateability Wedding” is taking place next year. BRB crying.

Details

Platformsdateabilityapp.com, iOS, Android
PriceFree version, $4.99/month or $54.99/year for Dateability+
Best ForDisabled and chronically ill folks and allies looking for authentic connections
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Raw

Raw

Pros

  • Daily, unfiltered selfie requirement ensures authenticity
  • In-app quiz focuses on realistic, practical compatibility factors
  • Basic features are free to use

Cons

  • Doesn’t have a video chat option
  • Not as many features as other dating apps

This app promotes authentic dating with no filter—literally. Designed as an anti-catfishing app, RAW requires you to take a quick picture of yourself with your phone’s front and back cameras to access the feed. The process ensures that images are always fresh (no old pics or photoshop here!) and helps you get a realtime snapshot of your potential crush. SYNC, the in-app quiz, focuses on practical, everyday things that can define long-term compatibility, like who picks up the check, household responsibilities, and definitions of success. (A breath of fresh air compared to surface-level prompts). You’ll then get a result like: “Jake, 92% in sync - Power Couple Potential.” RAW’s features help you determine whether or not someone is “Lifemate Material,” per the app. Matched users can also rate each other’s behaviors to encourage mutual respect.

Details

PlatformsiOS, Android
PriceFree version, $19.99 per month for premium
Best ForDaters who are tired of catfishing
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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Translr

Pros

  • Designed specifically for the trans community
  • Custom filters and identifiers for gender freedom
  • Rigorous verification process and allyship training

Cons

  • You have to pay for premium features

Translr is a dating app designed specifically for the trans community. Whereas traditional dating apps can force trans users into binary boxes or expose them to potential privacy risks, Translr flips the script with discreet privacy controls, a rigorous verification process, and custom identifiers that promote gender freedom. It also has a mandatory inclusivity training for any cis users. While the app is designed with the trans community in mind first and foremost, it also claims to be an inclusive platform for non-binary, genderfluid, LGBTQIA+, people who cross-dress, and supportive allies and admirers, per the app.

Details

PlatformsiOS, Android
Price$14.99 for a 1-month subscription, $29.99 for a 3-month subscription, $49.99 for a 6-month subscription
Best ForTrans folks
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
Stars Align

Pros

  • Unique astrology-based approach to dating
  • Interactive birth charts and daily planetary updates
  • Promotes soulful conversations and self-discovery

Cons

  • Might have a more limited user base compared to other apps
  • Some users report technical glitches

If checking Costar is part of your self-care routine, you’ll love Stars Align, an astrology-based dating app that uses interactive birth charts, daily planetary updates, and fun prompts to help you connect with others (and yourself). It’s perfect for astrology aficionados and newbies alike, or for anyone who likes their dates with less small talk and more soul. If you know that astrology is about more than your sun sign and want to find someone who matches your true energy, Stars Align could be the cosmic blueprint you’re looking for.

Details

PlatformsiOS, Android
PriceFree version, $1.99 per month for Stars Align Premium
Best ForAstrology lovers and the astrology-curious
LGBTQIA Friendly?Yes
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